Hi Louise, In a room like this I always like to keep the walls and ceilings ( including the small door and frame 1 colour...in this case a lavender. I'd start by finding colour chips that have the same colour as the carpet, and then go a few shades lighter but in the same tome. All baseboards and door to hall should be the same colour as the iron beds...off white. With the walls a colour you'll be able to see the pretty pattern of the frame. OR find a small scaled pattern of any of the shades of purple and the cream same as the bed frame) with the same fabric. Make custom bedding to match. In a small room 1 pattern works well everywhere. If you go the paint route, try to find fabric with soft gold, lavender, purple for a skirted table between the beds if there's room. You can put it on a cardboard table and base...found in some fabric or craft stores. Top it with a thin piece of glass ( Pier 1) and away you go.Don't be afraid of colour or small pattern in a small space, as you are going for the impact. Have fun! Shaila

Hi, This gray silk is one of our best sellers and works really well with Farrow & Ball Pavilion Gray in either a blind or curtains (ready made and made to measure available). Silk adds a luxurious feel which I think is always nice in a bedroom. I would then add colour in the accessories such as yellow which is very popular at the moment. You only have to change the accessories then to create a whole new look. http://www.kathyhansoninteriors.co.uk/curtains/ FREE sample fabrics available

Silvermist from Sherwin Williams would look beautiful with your walnut colored furniture. It was a light teal undertone. Here's a bedroom photo with this color. While the furniture color is lighter, yours will provide a stronger contrast.

You can really afford to go for drama in a bedroom and paint it a dark color if you like. If you find that a bit of a 'commitment' I'd go with a dark wall where your headboard should be. It would work well with the frames and mounts that are on your pictures above the bed. I can see you're currently sharing your room with a baby so a blanket box (a decent one you can sit on) would be a good investment to get those toys out of view. Don't go crazy with wood, I'd get one you could paint and change the up the upholstery on the lid so that you can update it every 5-7 years as you will with your room.