Hi this is an image I used to inspire my kitchen. I had similar issues to you - narrow space and wanted to get table and chairs in too. I started with bar conventionally looking into our u-shape design but moved to one end to allow drawers on both sides of island, to give more walk space, enable us to see the garden from the bar - but most of all, so the kids could see the tv (which would have been on wall behind). Almost all of our kitchen is drawers so I know what you mean about 'the look'
HOWEVER, the compromise was we'll go down to 2 stools (it's 900 wide). I figured the kids or mates will perch there for breakfast/supper - I hope I don't regret it. We aren't quite done yet - will post pic when worktop on.
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